Oct 3, 2002 Online Since 1996 Vol 77 No. 11
Appalachian heightens support for Miller family with ‘Umpth’ Becky DiVerniero
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Nathan Winkler | File Photo
Laurie Miller and her daughter Elizabeth, 7, during the family’s visit to Appalachian State in July. The Appalachian community extended a helping hand to the New York family after their husband and father, Douglas, died in the 9-11 terroist attacks on the World Trade Center.
   Over a year after the tragedy of 9-11, the Appalachian community is still trying to do what it can to help. One such ongoing effort has been the contribution to the Miller family. Laurie Miller lost her husband Douglas, a firefighter, in the 9-11 attacks. She and her three daughters, Elizabeth, 7, Rachel, 6, and Katie, 4, have since been “adopted” by Appalachian State University.
    “After 9-11 last year, everybody was looking for a way that they could help,” said Jenny Koehn, Appalachian and the Community Together (ACT) community service coordinator. “Barbara Daye, the dean of students at the time, had the idea that if we could reach out as one collective Appalachian family, if we could reach out to one family in New York, that that would be a really positive way to sort of collect our resources and energy and make a difference in one family’s life.”
    Shortly before the attacks occurred, Time magazine named Appalachian “College of the Year.” It was through this contact that Daye was eventually referred to the Millers, said Koehn.
   “We weren’t quite sure how to begin, but we thought a letter would be best, because a phone call out of the blue might seem kind of strange, like ‘Who are you people,’ and ‘I’m dealing with enough here,’” said Koehn. “So we sent her a letter and it just said that as a university we want to reach out to you.”
    After Miller agreed, ACT sent a video about Appalachian to the family, along with gifts from the bookstore, said Koehn.
    “Since then it’s been all kinds of fun things,” she said. “We had a brainstorming meeting last October and came up with a huge list of ideas. There were representatives from … 30 different offices and student clubs.
    “And the nice thing is it really has been a whole university thing. ACT has played sort of a coordinating role, but we are by no means the sole contributors of this program.”
    Campus Residence Student Association (CRSA) is one of the many groups on campus that have contributed to the Miller project. Through their “September to Remember” campaign, the group brought in over $1,000, said Jessi H. Lindberg, vice president of programs for CRSA.
    “We raised a great deal of money for the Miller family, helped unite the Appalachian Family around a common vision (humanity and patriotism), and provided a variety of programs for Appalachian students,” she said. “We raised almost $200 between the Military Mail/Dollar Donation Campaign and the Silent Auction. This is in addition to over $100 that we raised asking for donations at the “Ghostbusters” movie at the beginning of the year and the approximately $1,100 raised at Appalachian Idol. We are also in the middle of a change drive going on in each of the residence halls.”
    The ladies’ auxiliary branch of the local Veterans of Foreign Wars (VFW) has also pitched in. The group holds several country breakfasts every year to raise money for various purposes, including cancer research and project graduation, said Department of Psychology administrative assistant Nadine J. White, who serves as the local auxiliary’s secretary/treasurer.
    The ladies’ auxiliary group held a breakfast in October of last year for the purpose of raising money for the New York Fireman’s Fund. A check for $1,000 was sent to the fund but was never cashed, said White.
    “After the check had not been cashed in 6 months time, we voted in a meeting to find some way to get it to a family that could use it,” she said.
    “Larry Trivette, a retired Appalachian State employee and veteran, and I had seen the information about the Millers on Appalachian’s Web site and in newspaper articles.
    He brought the idea before one of our meetings and we convinced them that by giving to Laurie Miller and her daughters, we would be accomplishing what we had intended.”
    Various groups continue to send small gifts to the Millers, said Koehn.
    “We’ve sent birthday packages and different holiday packages, ‘just because’ packages, flowers, all kinds of things,” she said.
    Last January, Miller mentioned a desire to visit the school and “give everyone a big hug.”
    Miller, along with her three girls and mother, made the trip this past July. During their stay the group visited Tweetsie Railroad, Grandfather Mountain, and took a river rafting trip sponsered by Outdoor Programs, said Koehn.
    Miller said she hopes to visit again soon, according to a letter received by ACT.
    “Thanks for caring for me and the girls. You’ve done everything to the ‘umpth’ with class, reservation towards our privacy, and great love … We will see you again soon,” said Miller in the letter.
    “What a risk you have to take to bring your girls and your mom down to somewhere in North Carolina and spend a week with people you’ve never met,” said Koehn. “That’s pretty cool, and it worked out.”
    Anyone interested in assisting the Millers can contact Jenny Koehn at 262-2045.
 
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